Share Your World 4-8-19


I missed posting last week because my sister came home on Tuesday and we got really busy getting her and her little dog Snug settled into the house. We also started a new family blog called NOTES FROM THE VICARAGE, which will detail out journey as a family through this next year. Check it out by clicking the link above.

I am determined not to let another week go by without answering Melanie’s Sharing questions.

Here they are:

  1. What does a successful relationship look like to you?

Wow! A successful relationship described in one paragraph. That would be something if I could do it. I am pretty sure I cannot, but I can touch on one facet of a successful relationship; That would be communication. In a successful relationship communication thrives and is open.

  1. If you could turn any activity into an Olympic sport, what would you have a good chance at winning medal for?

Reading and test-taking

  1. What do you wish you knew more about?


  1. What is better in your opinion – asking for forgiveness or permission?

It is better to ask permission than forgiveness. It is better for relationships. Asking forgiveness rather than permission comes from a mindset that completion of tasks is more valuable than relationships. It plays well in American society but I think it is actually a pretty unhealthy way to live.

What’s the best thing about your life right now?

My connection with God.




Share Your World 3-18-19




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Here are this week’s questions and my answers:


Do You Have Any Guilty Pleasures?

I am an absolute freak for superhero shows. I cried at the last Avengers movie.

What Is The Worst Pick Up Line You Ever Heard?  

I think I have blocked all of them from my mind. I hate pick up lines because they are shallow, inneffective, and embarrassing.

What Slang Or Trend Makes You Feel Old?

The trend of aging makes me feel old, but it seems like everyone is doing it.

What Do You Consider The Most Over-rated Song?

Over rated? Hmm. Maybe “My Heart Will Go On.”….Maybe that one is just worn out. This one was big a few years ago and frankly I just don’t understand it.

Instead of a Tender Mercies question, here’s a philosophical one instead:

You Find A Book And Begin To Read Only To Discover That It Is Your Life. You Get To The Point That You Are At Now, Do You Turn The Page Knowing That You Will Not Be Able To Change The Events To Come?

What you have just described is what the Bible is so yes I am comfortable with the concept of turning the page to see what’s coming. I generally turn the page everyday and discover what is happening and even most days what is about to happen.


Share Your World 2-25-19

SHARE YOUR WORLD  is a weekly challenge in which our hostess Melanie shares several questions that reveal the worlds of her collaborators as they answer her. If you would like to share in the fun please click the underlined link and write a post of your own that shares your world.

Here are this week’s questions and my answers:

What, in your opinion, is the point to life?

I am going to poach an answer from the Westminster Shorter Catechism because I think this  sums it up nicely.

Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.

What was your most recent lie?  You don’t have to get really specific obviously.

My Mom has dementia. I am discovering the brain is a funny thing. With Mom when she asks a question now she is expecting a certain answer and she won’t stop asking it until you give her the answer she expects to hear. Generally this is based around the weather (which she thinks is just the most awful ever).

So when she asks, “Isn’t it cold outside?”

The right answer is “Yes Mom it is the coldest winter on record.” (even if it is fifty outside)

Until you say that, the question will continue to come. So…..Yeah I lie.

What country do you consider the strangest?   (it’s all In fun folks, ALL countries may seem strange to outsiders)

Strangest? Right now that would be America. I hardly feel I recognize or understand this place I live with its vast cultural divisions (not differences anymore but divisions). But how about we change the word from strange to exotic? Exotic would be….


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What’s your funniest story involving a car?

I think my funniest story involving a car was the time in college when I was coming in after curfew and got stopped at the guard house. The guard was a friend and so directed me to go in the out gate so I would avoid the camera and the paperwork of explaining why I was late back to campus. Sadly on my way in the out I ran into the guard house. So much for flying under the radar.

Do you have something you’re very thankful for or that showed immense kindness toward yourself or someone?

I am very grateful for the anointing and the work of my lead pastor Dan Lewiston. It is truly a privilege to serve under this man I call both Boss and friend.

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Share Your World 2-18-19

I have been missing big blocks of blogging time these last two weeks. So I am thankful to be able to get here this week and post on Melanie’s challenge SHARE YOUR WORLD

Here are Melanie’s questions and my answers.

If you didn’t have to sleep, what would you do with the extra time?

I think I would spend it reading and praying. I am finding such solace, hope and power in the presence of Jesus these days.

What job would you be terrible at?

I would be a terrible smoke jumper. I have a cousin who was a smoke jumper and hats off to her and her husband…but I just couldn’t….Jump out of a plane into a fire? What?

I would be a terrible acrobat. I am about as flexible as a steel girder. I was once told by a physical therapist I had the worst flexion she had ever seen in an ankle.

I would be a terrible businessman. I like to work hard but I have almost no concept of money.

I would be a terrible… Apparently there are lots of things I would be terrible at.

When was the last time you climbed a tree?

When I was a kid. Did I mention I have terrible flexion?

Do you count your steps? 

No. Did I mention I have terrible flexion?

Bonus question (just because it’s really silly)   What’s the dumbest way you’ve injured yourself?

I once stabbed myself in the palm of my hand trying to cut peanut brittle. Apparently you are supposed to smash it with a hammer? I would be a terrible peanut brittle maker.

Share Your World 2-11-19

I missed sharing my world last week. 😦

It is past time I again SHARED MY WORLD WITH YOU ALL.

So how does one share their world? Easy! You simply link to the Share Your World link above and answer Melanie’s questions. Which is what I am about to do!

Here are the questions and my answers….

What’s your favorite way to spend a weekend?

I spend most of my weekends in the presence of the Lord with the church. I can’t imagine a better way to spend time…but on the odd occasion I am not found in church for the weekend I love to sit somewhere quiet and breathe in the free air!

Endless Sky

This is a nice place to breathe in the free air

Who do you admire most in the world?

Faith that keeps going.

 What do you regret not doing?

I regret not having dancing at my wedding.
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If you see a puddle on the ground, do you walk around it or over/in it?

Around it, unless of course I have waterproof boots on, then I splash through.

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Share Your World 1-28-19

It is time to SHARE MY WORLD!

This is the challenge where our hostess, Melanie, asks some questions, and in answering them, we her contributors SHARE OUR WORLDS.

Melanie’s questions and my answers are below. When you have finished reading here, click the underlined link above and check out how Melanie’s other contributors answers the questions.

  1. Are you thin or thick skinned?   Are you easily offended or tend to let it just roll off your back like a duck does with water?                                                                                                                                                                                                                      My job as a pastor requires a thick skin. Living as a minister is a little like living in a fish bowl. People are always observing and commenting on what they observe and many times they are not very careful to consider the weight of their words. It just goes with the territory.
  2. How important are morals in a healthy society? What are the most important morals for citizens to have?  (Credit to Rory for this question)                                                                                                                                                                                          OK I could go a lot of places with this but I will let David speak for me this morning from Psalm 11-

    “When the foundations are being destroyed,what can the righteous do?”

    Shared morals are the bedrock of any society. When they shift or simply go away then the culture is sent into chaos.                                                                                             I would say the morals that are most important are the morals that line up with the one kingdom that is going to last forever. When all other kingdoms fail the Kingdom of God will go on. It is that society’s morals we should seek to emulate. OK I know that was a controversial answer, but now you definitely know a little bit more about my world.

  3. What will your epitaph be?

“He definitely believed!”

     4. (I don’t admire either/or questions much, which is why you won’t see ‘em often.  Today is an exception)  French toast, pancakes or waffles?

Pancakes! Thank you!


What were you grateful for this past week?

I am so grateful I got to visit with my daughters and my grand daughter. Thank you Amanda for taking me along for the ride!

Dani Brooke

Share Your World 1-14-19

Well I finally got here this week! There have been moments where I wondered if I would be able to squeak it in but HERE I AM SHARING MY WORLD AT LAST!!!

Melanie has asked some really deep questions this week and I have endeavored to answer them below. You can see how other contributors worked their way through by clicking the underlined link above.

  1. You’re walking in a forest and you find a black suitcase.  Inside it is one millions dollars and a piece of paper, stained in blood and bearing the single word “Don’t!”  Would you take the suitcase home or leave it?                                                                                                                                                                                  Ummm, No! Taking the suitcase is a sure-fired way to get serial-killed! I am not taking that suitcase anywhere. I am hightailing it out of the woods, calling the police, waiting for them to arrive and then I am leading them to the suitcase in the woods. I don’t want any part of a murder suitcase.
  2. Imagine you lapsed and cheated on your partner. You feel horrible and you know you’ll never do it again, because the feeling is so awful. Would you confess?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Wow! Now this is a hard one to answer. I have worked with too many people in just this situation to know that anyone can know what he or she would do definitively. I would hope I have the fortitude to do it myself, but honestly without help few can carry and conquer the fear. I would also say there is no such thing as “You know you will never do it again.” Situations like this are one of the best arguments for building healthy supportive relationships around yourself throughout life. Such Moments need strong friendships to survive in anything resembling health.
  3. Would you live your life differently if nobody ever judged you for anything you did?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             I live in the knowledge that I will be judged by God. His mercy covers me and I will be found holy, not having a righteousness of my own but having one given me by my Savior.
  4. W ould a fly without wings be called a walk? No? What would you call it?             Dead!

Share Your World 1-7-19

Happy 2019 everyone! I missed Sharing My World with all of you last week. The job kept me away from all but quick posts. I started the new year with four funerals, three of them in daily progression. I have to say that was a first I never need to repeat again!

But here are this week’s questions from Melanie along with my answers. When you have finished with this posts check out the REST OF SHARE YOUR WORLD BY CLICKING HERE.

Melanie’s questions:

Did you have to help out with chores when you were growing up?  If so, what were you assigned to do?

We did. We stacked wood (not very willingly but we did). and I fed the dog. Also when I was old enough (10 or so) I got a job first as a paperboy (136 papers a day) and then I started working in my father’s business as a dishwasher by the time I was fifteen.

Have you ever researched your family tree?   What do you know about your family’s roots? 

I know that my family has been in America since before the Revolution and that we have always lived in the New England area. I also know that men in my direct line have held my middle name for the last eight generations at least. My middle name, by the way, is Elon.

What’s your cure for hiccups?

Holding your breath until they are gone or until you pass out.

What makes you roll your eyes every time you hear it?  Either figuratively or literally?

Lots of things. I am a master eye roller and God is working that out of me bit by bit. After all one of the seven deadly sins is “the haughty eye” which literally translated is the roll of the eye. Yikes!!!


Share a gratitude or positive moment or experience from 2019 so far.


My granddaughter is beginning to test out her knees!

Share Your World 12-17-18


It’s getting closer to Christmas folks! Which means it is time to Share Our Worlds….that is to participate in the challenge from Spark from A Combustible Mind and answer questions that allow us to share our worlds with each other during this season of sharing.

Here are this week’s questions posed by our hostess Melanie!


What traditional Christmas decoration is actually a parasitic plant?

That’s easy! Mistletoe.

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Name something about this holiday season (whatever version you may celebrate) that most people like, but you dislike?

I am not a big gift giver. It’s not that I am cheap (although there are those that would disagree), it’s that I don’t find the spirit of Christmas in sharing things as much as I find it in sharing lives.

What’s your favorite – or least favorite –  song sung traditionally at this time of year?

Good Christian Men rejoice is not my favorite.

Finally:    What would you like to share with the world, if time or cost were no object?

I would share more of Jesus.




And the last one ———>  In the song “Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer,” what “incriminating” evidence was found on Grandma’s back?

Share Your World Dec. 10, 2018


It is time once again to SHARE OUR WORLDS! We all do this by answering the weekly share questions posed by our hostess Melanie and then linking back to her site to join the sharing community.

What’s the worst topping you could put on popcorn?   (credit to Teresa for this one)

I don’t know about the worst topping but I can tell you I do like pop corn mixed with Good-N-Plenty which I thought would be weird but discovered was actually quite good.

In what country did Silent Night originate?

Germany, Stille Nacht

(WARNING! The following question is NOT meant to start a fuss.  It’s merely a good discussion question in my opinion.  Most everyone knows where I stand on this. If you feel like arguing about it, please give it a pass.) We’re all adults and sensible ones at that.  We can be mature about such things, right?

How would you react if there was irrefutable proof that God doesn’t exist? How about if there was irrefutable proof that God does exist?

Well if God didn’t exist and all this was really just an accident I would probably enjoy this whatever it is to the best of my ability realizing there was nothing beyond. If God does exist however then I have to live in light of my understanding of eternity and the fact that this thing I am living now is only one very small part of the existence I have set before me.

And last question:

What is the scariest non banned item you could take on to a plane?

My mother. She hates to ttravel.



Which version of the holiday celebration do you and your family enjoy?  By this I mean do you follow Jewish traditions with Hanukkah; Christian celebrations with Christmas and (for those over the pond) Boxing Day; or some other festivities that I’ve overlooked?   Please do share with everyone!  I truly feel that this sort of question lets us know a little more about our fellow bloggers without getting too personal (i.e. revealing too much of private lives, which some folks prefer to keep private.)

I really enjoy Christmas Eve and Christmas morning church service.