Fifty And Thinking Of Dad

Cee’s Black & White Photo challenge this week is :Over Fifty.

http://ceenphotography.com/2014/02/12/cees-black-white-challenge-50-years-or-older/

As I read her post I found myself walking down the road to memory. I am nearly fifty myself now. My Dad died just days before his fiftieth birthday.

I find myself  thinking of all the things he missed, all the memories he did not get to make. My youngest daughter, for instance,  will be married this November. Dad never knew her. Yet his life touches hers still because part of what he was is in me.

Jesus said “If you have seen me you have seen the Father.” While that’s true for Jesus and the Father God, I guess in some small way it’s also true for every father and son. As much as we may not like it there are some things in us that reflect where we came from, who we came from. Maybe we express it differently. Perhaps we are more healed than our predecessors so what’s in us of them comes out in healthy ways instead of broken ways, but it’s still part of our heritage…our DNA.

The writer of Ecclesiastes wrote “There is nothing new under the sun.”  Maybe, just maybe, that’s because each new generation is just a reflection of the last. Maybe we shine better. Maybe we shine worse. Maybe we shine further than our forbears.  However, we shine, and it is something that the world has seen before.

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The piano man.

Cee’s Fun Foto Challenge: Preoccupied

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I haven’t done a Fun Foto Challenge in a while….It’s a whole new year and I am trying to take back the time that I have given away to other things in recent months. This week we the challenge is to depict the theme Preoccupied. 

The definition of being preoccupied according to Webster’s On-line Dictionary is- to be lost in thought; absorbed in some preoccupation (a state in which you give all your attention to something)

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Discipline means to prevent everything in your life from being filled up. Discipline means that somewhere you’re not occupied, and certainly not preoccupied. In the spiritual life, discipline means to create that space in which something can happen that you hadn’t planned or counted on.

Henri Nouwen

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A lot of people seem to get preoccupied with what I’m wearing as opposed to the music.

Sheryl Crow

Our focus cannot be everywhere. We are finite beings. It’s O.K. to become preoccupied with something. We just need to make sure it’s the right something.

J.E. Lillie

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I hope you enjoy the song.